Monday, August 27, 2007

The nature

These days been so tied up at work and also have nothing to blog about. In fact, am neglecting this blog of mine….

Well, a few days ago, when I was about to leave for an appointment, noticed there’s a row of wild mushrooms growing along the tree trunks. I have never seen this before and find this something really wonderful (perhaps that’s not the word, huh) thus, decided to grab my camera and took the picture of it.

Isn’t this nice to see… the nature, the life, the environment… 大自然現象, 野生狀態, 野生生命力…

Saturday, August 18, 2007

Your dream house?

This morning just thought of visiting E&O Properties’ developments. So, we drove all the way up to Tanjong Tokong to see their project, Sri Tanjung Pinang.

Wow, the water front suites which is a service apartment is so impressive, but then expensive leh!!!
850sq.ft is about RM450K, and mind you though, it’s only 1 bedroom. According to them, 70% renovated, even Plasma TV in the master bedroom bath room is FOC. All are given, except lose items like bed, sofa sets, etc. But it’s only RM450K!!

We were told the 2 bedrooms apartment is fully sold, and 50% to 60% sold to foreigner. It seems that they have a soft launch in Hong Kong, London, Indonesia, and many other places, and were told these purchasers have actually given their booking fee, and will be signing Sales & Purchase agreement in this week or next.

With that reason they have locked the 2 bedrooms apartment show unit.
Too bad!!

Oh ya, we heard the 2 bedrooms units are all sea facing, and that’s the reason why it was fully sold.

Do you think local will spend RM1.2mil to buy a 2 bedrooms apartments, and it’s only 1.1K sq.ft? Oh ya, it’s on a reclaimed land….

I do not deny the fact that their design, architecture is very impressive. In fact, if you have the time, do drop by their show unit … the terrace houses, the semi-d’s, etc…

Oh ya, am not any broker or E&O sales executives or managers… Ok?? After all, they need not any sales to push the buyers to buy their properties…. Just visit the show house on your own, you will like it!

Mother-in-Law or Monster-in-Law

Well, first I would like to disclaim the said entry, as this wasn’t apply on me.
Errr… would say more of relating this to the earlier post which I have posted about the in law problems.

Some one had commented that I have talked about the mother- in-law without mentioning about my own mother, perhaps my mother doesn’t stand a seat in my mind nor my heart. Well, I didn’t respond to that particular comment, as I find that it doesn’t really matter, as my mother knows the detail of the entire story.

A person that I know, whom is related to me also recently the son had admitted to the hospital and normally the in laws will inform everyone at home and everyone at home will pay a visit or do something. She wondered why this time, the in law didn’t act on this and only the father-in-law came to visit.

In fact, the woman that I know understands that the mother-in-law is inconvenient to see the grandson in the hospital. What disturb her was, if the grandmother does love the grandson and care for the grandson, would the grandmother give a call to the daughter-in-law and find out how’s the little one doing?

Not that all the daughters-in-law in the world would want to condemn the mothers-in-law. In fact, we know good mothers-in-law out there, which we are not known off, that’s all.

And I know the daughters-in-law in that family is so much so yearning to be loved and respect in their family. Cuz, to my understanding, that family is very conservative, and whoever had got married to the sons, will have a culture shock.

Anyway, if you were the mother of the child, would you be sad and upset that the mother-in-law didn’t even bother to call the daughter-in-law to find out how’s the grandson doing?

Tuesday, August 14, 2007

'Managing' marriage, friendship & family??

I don't what title should I put for this post...
After the previous post on 'Don't rush into marriage', suddenly this blog of mine has became a place for other commentors to comment.

The comments has exchanged and a bit fire up. Well, it was a positive exchange....

Like I said in my intro, am ain't a talkative person and not good in expressing myself, perhaps with that, I may indirectly say something or post something that leads others into a scenario where mistaken on certain perception.

We exchanged comments on 'managing' marriage, friendship and I add on family.
Do you all agree with us that marriage, friendship do need to be managed?

Thursday, August 9, 2007

Don’t rush into marriage

I am so pleased to read this "Don't rush into marriage" by Wanita MCA chief Datuk Dr Ng Yen Yen.

There's always a pros and cons on the subject above. Especially when you're young, you can bear child easily, and by the time you're fifty years old, the children are all grown up, and less responsibilities in terms of looking after them, and so on.

If you married old, then kids are small, and your age is escalating and responsibilities become heavy too.

But what I believe, if a couple married too young, you have not really explore the outside world and not even know what is the life time commitment that you're going to face? Married young tend to be facing lots of temptations on marital affairs. Well, I may be wrong, but majority are seeing the trend of single parent increasing.

And, it ain't easy to cope with a child or children if you're single. The stress level that you're facing and tireness that you're getting, it will drive anyone crazy.

I may be wrong... however, all the above are all personal point of view....

Am mad that someone being rude yet the person thought it was a joke

If someone that you always been liaise with all the time and being nasty and rude, how would you react??

Would you be mad?!

Well, the honest answer is, YES, I WILL AND I AM ALSO!

If the person reads this, am sure the person will know who am I talking about!

Noted that nowadays there are many working colleagues, peers are drawing line and not working like a team not to mention partnership!

At times a courteous to send you a mail on certain things that the company is implementing, they could just tell you, why don't you get it from others. At times, I would just want to tell these people off, if you have the mail, why don't you just forward?

What's that so difficult to get it from your mailbox?

Some people are openly tells you that they are no longer supporting this superior, and whatever they do, they are not notify. So, if you wanna know, please find the correct person. Well, no doubt that has been said it's true, but a favour can be granted, right?

Am damn blardy mad when some one could tell you that sorry, I don't look after him, so I don't know where he/she goes. Or, some one could just tell you, sorry, I don't keep inside my pocket, I don't know.

Working life is getting real damn tough nowadays!!!

And especially for those younger generation!!
I wonder what manners do they have to a certain level!!!

Friday, August 3, 2007

I am actually pretty upset with these news lately

Do you know notice lately all the news are shocking, sadden, and unbelievable?

First, it was the 3 year old girl was murdered, then the 18 months old baby was abused till death, and now, a male body was chopped off into 11 pieces.

Aren't these news shocking, sadden and unbelievable?

I wonder do these people know LOVE?

The 3 year old girl, that was murdered, I believe the mother was on the spot light and also have regretted for what had happened. Don't think any woman could get thru what it was happened too.

As for the 18 years old baby case, was being abuse, both parents are under interrogation. So, I was asking myself, it took 9 months for the mother to carry the baby, don't the mother have the passionate attachment to the baby? And why would the mother abuse the baby?

The latest shocking news... a male body was being chopped into 11 pieces... this case was reported in one of the high end condominium in Mount Kiara. The latest update was the woman that being remanded is married to this man. Then, am wondering, ... why? What objectives? If it's already falls out of love, then divorce?

If it's due to domestic violent then report police and follow by divorce, it ain't gotta be end it this way, right?
Or, nowadays too much of CSI...

[sigh] Honestly, am kinda sad to see such things... or the world has change??

Do you think about this?

At times am thinking how much time have I spent with my husband?

For example, you have almost spent 8 to 9 hours in the office, and these hours were spent with your colleagues, bosses, peers, and so on. Then after, you need 6 to 8 hours sleep, then you balance 8 hours... how do you spend that 8 hours with your husband?

Even right now, am looking at my PC, and he's enjoying his beauty sleeps...

And I am not that type of person that can sleep easily, at times, I gotta count sheeps... [sigh]

How nice if I can be like other people that can fall into sleep easily.

Oh ya, let's talk about this time spending... with this minimum time spend, at times at home you may still have to work also... nowadays many companies given the employees a notebook, reason is because they are reachable, contactable even they are off duty. And if there's any urgent work to do, we may have to work from home till wee hours... So, that has minus off the remaining 8 hours.

Guess, bottom line, I think couple or husband and wife should find time to spend, ... don't just work and work and work ... right?