Wednesday, January 23, 2008

External Marital Affair

If one of these days, you got to know your husband is unfaithful to you, what would you do?
Would you ask for divorce and fight for the kids’ custody?
Would you confront him and quarrel with him?
Would you stay silent and wait till he return home?
Would you do something to make yourself more attractive and make him got attracted to you?
Would you think over what has triggered this marriage that causes him having an external marital affair?

I believe many women out there will think it over and over again, what have I done wrong that my man is straying outside of this home, right?

And, many would think I've sacrificed a lot for the man, for the family, and why is he betraying me?

We have shared so much laughter, so much happiness and tears together, not even that able to gain you back from the outside attractive world?

Or is it because other women outside will give you the pride and ego that every men needed?

I bet many of us come across many famous figures in town do have 2 wives, some of them could actually stay together for many years.
Was this fated? Or barely the man controls it all?

Some women are really lucky, the man that they married a faithful and truthful. Some are unlucky….

But, I believe a marriage built by both husband and wife, in any circumstances; husband and wife should fight against all odds to salvage it instead of letting it die quietly.

Well, this is another 5 cents worth of thoughts of mine.

4 comments:

Daniel said...

ya.. maintaining a marriage needs both parties in join effort to maintain it. Hv a nice day

Anonymous said...

Take care.. be calm...

BB COMMUNITY said...

ya...agree, take care, be calm~

New Kid on the Blog said...

Hi Daniel, thk u for dropping by. Yes, you're absolutely right. If a man shows no signs of cutting off the affair, that doesn't help in salvaging the marriage either! Right?

Hi Wilson, thks!

Hi BB Comm, will do! Thks again!