A Sad Father's Day

Errr... how do I start this? To wish everyone a Happy Father's Day for a start? Or, to start this as a sad and solemn blog?

Like I said the other day, my deepest condolences to the family that lost her husband, and their father. The funeral took place today at 10.30am. And, I was there to pay the deceased the last respect, and also walked with him the last journey. Looking at the family, I honestly do not know what to say, but to encourage the children be tough, be strong and be independant. To their mother, I can only say the same thing, and sincerely wish her do not collapse at this point in time, if she does the children will definately fall as well.

The sudden death was due to over ate durian, the king of fruit which everyone loves it. And it was an accident happened in the morning where nobody at home. We believe the durian gas that choke up that caused him collapsed in the bathroom and fell on the floor. That's where the fall and hit.

It was too sudden to everyone at home, even to the deceased siblings in local, East Malaysia, and even overseas. Not to mention to his immediately tie, his wife, his children.

Honestly, it was speechless when come to such circumstances, beside giving them all the support we can, what could we do next?

Do we need to over eat something which is not too good for the heatlh? For example like Durians? Understand there were the case on over ate durians and passed out, and even over ate durians and died too. The person over ate and kick the bucket, and living the family behind that will not solve any problems ... right? Living them behind, will they be able to stand strong and firm to face the subsequent ups and falls in the coming days? And, especially the children are young and the wife too.

I always believe the person that had kicke the bucket has nothing to worry, but living those behind are the one that will be worried a lot.

Anyway, .... the funeral took place on Father's Day, it will be a memorable day for the children. Honestly no one could ever forget this.