What makes a good husband/father?

Yesterday was Father's Day, now that it became so commercialize that these days are like part of commercial business. Don't you think so?

Let's talk about this, what makes a good husband and/or father? What are the basic requirement to be a good husband or a good father?

Do you need to be filthy rich?
Do you need to be high profile?

Does a man need to be MCP (Man Chauvinistic Pig) in order to be a man, or a 'basic' husband?
Anyway, after yesterday funeral which I had attended, I think I would conclude this on my personal view.

If a husband has so much health complications, perhaps a strict diet is needed. Cuz, that's to me that he's a responsible man and non-selfish. Don't you think so? If he doesn't control his diet and kept eating something that will harm his health that may lead to death, don't you find this behavior is selfish? Cuz, he's not even considering living those behind may giving them lots of problems to face in life?

Beside the point, some men even think that by doing so, he could end his life without suffering, unfortunately, there are many things in life are not that easy to fulfill. Let's say, regardless of any religions, ... whether you're Muslims, Buddhist or Christians, with this concluded your life, your other half will have emotional breakdown. If your family is ain't wealthy, the other wife will have to consider the finances for the family. Even if you're filthy rich, your other wife is also worried to live the life alone cuz, she has no one to depend on.

So, this attitude to me is selfish! Agree?

Responsible man - if he's a responsible husband he would have taking notes of what can be eaten and what cannot be. Instead of giving an excuse that with all these complications, if I don't eat now, I may not be able to eat when I can't eat. Why don't the man think of by restricting this diet may gain him a few years of life, and hey, that's bonus, right?

Anyway, it's always a bonus if your husband could help you to do some house works, like iron clothes, mopping floor, wash dishes, etc. But some men could tell you that they will not do such things as they are men! Some even leave the glass on the table without taking it to the basin and wash. And mind you there are many of such men in the world!!

Anyway, all the above are my personal point of view, it may not related to anything, ... it was just something that crob up in my mind which I think I would like to talk it out.